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Archive for June, 2008

Damned if you do…

Posted by Sean on June 13, 2008

I think we as a society love complain about what’s happening TO US, instead of enjoying what’s NOT HAPPENING TO US.

When I ventured outside today to run my errands and head to the gym I happened to notice how unbelievably hot and humid it was outside. Of course I reflexively started to grunt and groan about how you could see the humidity in the air, and feel the steam coming off of the road and your car.Whew

As I was driving I realized how we are ‘Damned if we do, and Damned if we don’t’. Ever notice it’s either one extreme or another when it comes to being content?

At work we always talk about how we HATE when it’s so busy we don’t have time to pee. (And yes work has actually been that busy). But then on the flip side, when work is controlled and quiet… we then complain about being bored.Doh

Or like today.. we complain about the unbearable heat and humidity, but yet just less than 3 or 4 weeks ago I can remember the temperature being a high of 55! Confused (yes unfortunately I live in that type of climate here in the North East)

At what point do we enjoy what is going on and stop comparing the situation to what could, or should be the ideal situation?

It can ALWAYS be warmer, or cooler, or a more ‘comfortable’ climate. And yes work can ALWAYS be more manageable.

But don’t you think you should be happy that your their? Ever think about those individuals that would give their right leg to be out in that miserable heat? To just feel the sun on their face, or feel the grass in their toes?

Or how about the individual who is out of a job? Or someone who is injured and can’t work?

The list goes on. I do it as much as the next person, and I sometime’s have to give my self a ‘reality check’ every so often to shut myself up and simply enjoy the moment.

Are you enjoying the moment or are you too busy wishing for something else?

‘If you woke up breathing, congratulations! You get another chance.’

Carpe Diem


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No one can make you feel bad without your help

Posted by Sean on June 12, 2008

Yeah right.

C’mon is it really that simple. How in the world can someone’s action only be effective if you help them?

Hmm. Yes it really is this simple. It’s a simple choice. Remember it’s not what happens to you that matters so much as to how you react to it. It’s your reaction that is the catalyst for you state of mind and your feelings toward the whole scenario.

Here’s a thought. The next time someone tries to ‘guilt’ you into something. Stop and think about the actual action. Am I going to allow this to hurt me? Allow this to make me sad? Allow this to ruin my attitude for the day?

Irregardless if what is being said is true or not.. it’s how you react to it that counts. Are you going to internalize it and let it eat you up inside.. therefore ruining all your chances of having a pleasant and happy moment. Or do you consume the information as an experience. Accept it for what it is and learn from it. Accept your fault or accept someone else’s fault and decide what you want to learn from it, to adapt and be better for the next situation that arises.

Any experience, good or bad, you will ALWAYS learn something. And any learning experience is a GOOD experience.

 

 


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U.S. life expectancy still trails 30 countries???

Posted by Sean on June 12, 2008

 U.S. life expectancy still trails 30 countries – CNN.com

I was reading my news before I was off to work and this caught my eye. I let you skim through article to formulate your own opinion.

Here are my thoughts:

  • DOES IT SURPRISE YOU THAT THE US is still behind other countries in life expectancy?
  • Have you been paying attention to the obesity rate in the US?
  • How about our convenience society?
  • Even though our mortality rate is down, we still surpass all other countries in all the ‘killer’ habits.

I sometimes wonder who does these studies? Better yet I wonder how informed is John Q. Public?

Carpe Diem


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How do I know I'm hydrated?

Posted by Sean on June 12, 2008

 

So we all know about the recommended daily intake of water. Somewhere around 8 glasses of water. Their are a ton of websites and tons of information on how much and what kind of water you should drink.  Then you have the bottled water vs. tap water debate. I think it’s safe to say we all know the benefits of water.

The human body’s percentage of water is somewhere in the range of 65% or higher. I think I read an article that it can be as high as 78%. The take home message being that your body makeup is more than half water.

So it’s safe to say drinking water is good for the body.  Drinking more will definitely hydrate your body. As to how much and how often we won’t debate (at least not today on this post) Winking We also won’t even skim the surface on the debate of water vs. sports drinks either.

I wanted to talk about how to monitor or measure your body’s hydration. I want to share a quick-fast and easy way to determine if your currently hydrated and how to measure if your hydrating yourself adequately. Now this lil’ trick does not exist in a bubble and is in no way a substitute for true medical advice and medical analysis, but it’s an easy and inexpensive trick.

It’s really simple. Look at the color of your urine.  Is it dark or light? I really don’t care about the shade of yellow or amber, but more importantly how clear is it? Is it really dark or does is it almost take on the consistency of… uuhhmm I don’t know … water?

The more hydrated you are, the closer your urine will look like water. Pretty simple huh? How can you forget that one!?

Now there are some important facts to note while using this little trick:

  1. Let me reiterate this method does not exist in a bubble, there are a million other factors out there that can affect the color, smell and consistency of your urine.
  2. Yes diuretics and other popular drinks (soft drinks, cola, sports drinks, tea, coffee, etc) can and will give you the clear urine, but you may not be hydrated. So don’t expect to drink coffee, or tea and be hydrated. Some drinks like coffee and tea act like a diuretic and can inhibit a hormone in your body, therefore causing you to urinate more and more often.
  3. Just as what you drink affects your hydration, so do the foods you eat. Just imagine the amount of sodium content in a can of processed food.
  4. Yep your physical activity plays a HUGE role in your hydration, as well as how much you sweat. Everybody sweats differently. (I sweat standing in 30 degree weather and my wife doesn’t ever perspire until it’s almost 100!)
  5. Drinking more water will definitely make you pee more!!!! But trust me, barring you don’t have any pre-existing medical conditions, your  body will adapt and you won’t urinate quite as often.

This is great for determining your level of hydration as well as monitoring if your ‘becoming’ hydrated. Is all that water helping you hydrate? It also lets you know just  how dehydrated you really were.

So, how hydrated are you?

 

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How do I know I’m hydrated?

Posted by Sean on June 12, 2008

So we all know about the recommended daily intake of water.Somewhere around 8glasses of water. Their are a ton of websites and tons of information on how much and what kind of water you should drink.  Then you have the bottled water vs. tap water debate.

We all know the benefits of water.

The human body’s percentage of water is somewhere in the range of 65% or higher. I think I read an article that it can be as high as 78%. The take home message being that your body makeup is more than half water.

So it’s safe to say drinking water is good for the body.  Drinking more will definitely hydrate your body. As to how much and how often we won’t debate (at least not today on this post) Winking We also won’t even skim the surface on the debate of water vs. sports drinks either.

I wanted to talk about how to monitor or measure your body’s hydration. I want to share a quick-fast and easy way to determine if your currently hydrated and how to measure if your hydrating yourself adequately. Now this lil’ trick does not exist in a bubble and is in no way a substitute for true medical advice and medical analysis, but it’s an easy and inexpensive trick.

It’s really simple. Look at the color of your urine.  Is it dark or light? I really don’t care about the shade of yellow or amber, but more importantly how clear is it? Is it really dark or does is it almost take on the consistency of… uuhhmm I don’t know … water?

The more hydrated you are, the closer your urine will look like water. Pretty simple huh? How can you forget that one!?

Now there are some important facts to note while using this little trick:

  1. Let me reiterate this method does not exist in a bubble, there are a million other factors out there that can affect the color, smell and consistency of your urine.
  2. Yes diuretics and other popular drinks can and will give you the clear urine, but you may not be hydrated. So don’t expect to drink coffee, or tea and be hydrated. Some drinks like coffee and tea act like a diuretic and can inhibit a hormone in your body, therefore causing you to urinate more and more often.
  3. Just as what you drink affects your hydration, so do the foods you eat. Just imagine the amount of sodium content in a can of processed food.
  4. Yep your physical activity plays a HUGE role in your hydration, as well as how much you sweat. Everybody sweats differently. (I sweat standing in 30 degree weather and my wife doesn’t ever perspire until it’s almost 100!)
  5. Drinking more water will definitely make you pee more!!!! But trust me, barring you don’t have any pre-existing medical conditions, your  body will adapt and you won’t urinate quite as often.

This is great for determining your level of hydration as well as monitoring if your ‘becoming’ hydrated. Is all that water helping you hydrate? It also lets you know just  how dehydrated you really were.

So, how hydrated are you?

 


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Random Bloginess

Posted by Sean on June 11, 2008

I’ve been spending a lot of time thinking about and tinkering with this new blog of mine. Trying to make it unique, trying to make it interesting, and of course trying to attract attention. I’m reading and researching from the A-list Bloggers around the Blogosphere. Soaking up any and all helpful hints for a successful blog.

I think in time I’ll try and produce some revenue from my blog (who wouldn’t!), but for now I think I should concentrate on the CONTENT of this blog.

My theory on a good blog, or at least a blog that can last is making as many posts as possible. Although I just read an article from Problogger on frequency on posting on your blog that states there might be such a thing as too man posts. LOLDoh  I can’t win.

I’m trying to network as best I know how. I’m on Twitter (Twhirl), Plurk, Pownce, FriendFeed and Profilactic. I just added a Lens on Squiddo as well!

I’ve been thinking about the advertising portion of my blog. I did some quick research on WordPress.com vs. WordPress.org. and as of now I think I’ll stick to the basics! Just a lil too much information for me to consume this early in the game.

I wanted to add all kinds of fun and cool widgets that help market and increase traffic to my blog, but my options are extremely limited using the free blog option. Not only don’t I know enough to invest in a paid webhost blog, but I’m not ready to invest the money (at least not yet).

I think I need more readers before I go and spend money on a blog! Heh heh.

I’ve been thinking about a weekly post. I want to start a theme of some sort. Maybe have one day a week dedicated to the ‘mental‘ aspect of my blog, and one day dedicated to the ‘physical‘ aspect of my blog. I also don’t want to limit myself to just a blog on nothing but information. I want it personal. Which is why you’re getting my random bloginess! I don’t want it to be just pictures and ‘how-to tips. I want to share what I do, and why I think it can help.

I do want to maintain some sort of balance with my ‘strong’ work between mental strength and physical strength. I would love to hear any suggestion you may have regarding this topic. ( I thought about Mental Mondays? or Tough Tuesdays?)

I’m hoping to start interacting more with those who read my posts. Get some feedback as to what they like, not like. I want this blog to be unique. Take health and fitness from a different angle.

I named this blog because of answer my wife gave me when I asked her to describe me in one word. LOL Yeah, I dare you to try and describe yourself in one word. (Not as easy as you think) She told me I was Strong. I had mental/emotional strength and physical strength. Little did she know it would turn into this adventure. ( I have to apologize to her constantly since I spend my free time messing around with this thing a lot lately)

So began the birth of ‘To Be Strong’. The Strong One. I’ve decided to keep my identity somewhat hidden behind this persona for now. Although in the very near future I think I’ll be V-casting, or Vod-Casting or Vlogging with my posts. So my face will soon be plastered all over my blog. (Uh oh)

I look forward to anyone’s input and suggestions for what you think might be a good fit for this crazy adventure I have started.

Carpe Diem


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Ssshhh… Quiet please I paid to watch this movie

Posted by Sean on June 9, 2008

How many of us still frequent the Cinema? How many of us still think that some movies are worth the money they charge for a movie ticket these days? How many of us go to the movies… and buy a snack or two?

Well my wife and I still like to see movies on the big screen, unfortunately we always consider it quite the ‘crap-shoot’.

Our biggest complaint, ok MY biggest complaint is the inconsideration and rudeness of the fellow public. I have been a movie-goer ever since the drive-thru ‘Star Wars’ days. (Yes I’m showing my age). What I can’t figure out is why individuals will pay money to watch a movie.. and pay the money for a snack and drink.. and then TALK THE ENTIRE MOVIE. They some how think they are in the privacy of their own home, or better yet they simply do not care or do not have the common courtesy or public etiquette to keep their flippin’ traps shut!!! (pardon my language)Angry

 

My wife and I have succumbed to saving money by usually going to a matinee. And even during those show times we seem to always find the A**Holes who can’t simply just watch the DANG movie.Chatterbox

It turns into a mini circus sometimes with all the snickering and chit-chat. The crazy part of all this is their not even TRYING to be decent. They’re not even trying to keep the volume of their voices low. NOOOOOO. Instead they keep laughing .. and joking… raising all kinds of ruckus. All the while we and I’d like to believe the rest of the movie theater is trying to actually watch the movie that we paid good money to see.

Yep, I admit it. I have on more than one occasion made quite a scene by calling them out in the middle of the theater. I’ve been calm and cooperative.. as well as rude, loud and mean. Yep.. my wife has also done it. LOL Each time I never feel guilty for losing my cool… and I always get a ‘good-job’ nod from at least a handful of the fellow ‘victims’ in the theater.

My wife and I have even gone so far as to get the management of the theater involved. (yep it’s been that bad)

I just don’t seem to understand where people learn this blatant disregard for common decency.

Needless to say my wife and I are now very picky when it comes to whether or not a movie is worth ‘risking’ the adventure. And it’s a shame that it’s come to that.

I’ve gone from an avid movie lover to a tiresome passerby.

Am I alone on this?

Carpe Diem

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How do you measure your fitness level?

Posted by Sean on June 8, 2008

I’ve gone through many fitness phases in my life. With each phase I was either in better or worse ‘shape’. I was fit, or I was not.

As a high school student-athlete it was all about performance. Could I last through a game and or event without losing my edge. Could I out perform the person next to me or beat my competitor.

Post high school and in college, I fell down that ladder mostly due to the fact I wasn’t participating in any organized sports. I simply exercised and ‘worked-out’ whenever I had the chance. Which in those days was few and far between. I was ‘in-shape’ by measuring how I looked. Did I have those ‘love-handles’. How did I look in a tank-top?

Over the last 10yrs or so it was simply a hobby. A hobby which I never had time for. My career took so many turns, and hit so many stops that the gym and exercising simply became a topic of conversation, and not an activity. I measure how fit I was by comparing myself to the extreme. If I didn’t weigh 250lbs, and didn’t look over weight, than I figured I was doing OK.

I exercised initially to get BIG. The older I have gotten, my thought process has definitely changed. I now simply want to have a good cardiovascular resistance and of course not be embarrassed to have my shirt off at the beach.

I measure my degree of fitness by what I can or cannot do at the gym. Did I lift that amount of weight last week? Did I run that far or that fast last week?

Well I had an epiphany yesterday while working around the house.

Every year like most home owners, we have to tidy-up the curb appeal of our house. You know, trim the bushes around your house and/or property. Keep the lawn trimmed, and mulch the trimmings of your lawn. Whether that be around your trees, bushes, landscaping, etc.

This is our third year in this house. The first year we did this activity, we simply trimmed the bushes, gave the usual face lift around the perimeter of the house. It took us almost the entire weekend. A good day and a half.

Last year we became a lil more efficient at the duty and I think we finished the job in one day.

Yesterday we did the face lift, trimming, raking, cleaning, a lil weeding and then cut the lawn with our usual trimming, weed whacking, etc . And we completed everything in less than 4 hours!

It was almost a slap in the face! WOW. I could only attribute it to two things. We of course have become more efficient at the task. But secondly our fitness level DEFINTELY  improved and assisted in the overall performance. I of course feel better these days, and my wife has been also exercising more often.

I joking told my wife yesterday that we have finally reaped the benefits of being more fit, and our exercising habits have finally paid off!Party

So how do measure your fitness?

Core Comment Update:

I wanted to thank Derek Semmler over on The Man Page of Sparkplugging for generously including me in The Manival 8th Edition!

 

 

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A Useless Exercise

Posted by Sean on June 6, 2008

I’m a people watcher sometimes. OK, maybe more than just sometimes. Blushing

I take interest in how some people choose their workouts. I often notice we as a society suffer from the ‘copy-cat’ syndrome. We see an ‘in-shape’ person, or someone who looks ‘fit’. Something about them, you’re wishing you had. Whether it’s their physique, or how slim they are, or maybe it’s how strong they look, or how much weight they lift. Irregardless we want to emanate them, be like them, or simply look like they do. So simplicity tells us, that if I do what they do.. I’ll look like they do! RIGHT?! Nerd

If only that were true.

I love how the lay-person wants to workout like the professional bodybuilder. If they do what the bodybuilder does, then they too will have that chiseled, massive look. Heh heh.

If you’re aspirations are to become a bodybuilder, then by all means GO FOR IT! I wish you the best. If on the other hand you are looking to lean down, or get stronger, or be more fit, lose weight, etcetera, etcetera. Then you may want to rethink your plan of attack in the gym.

Take for instance the seated calf raise.  

A great exercise for the bodybuilder, a useless exercise for the lay-person.

WHY?! I can only imagine the reaction I’m going to get from some individuals.Talk to the hand

Let’s talk anatomy.

The calf muscle, yep that mass of muscle behind your shin. It covers from the back of your knee to the back of your heel. I won’t go into the gross anatomical structures of the knee other than the two muscles that compromise the ‘calf’. You have your Soleus muscle and the every popular Gastrocnemius muscle.

The Soleus muscle outlined in Green and the Gastrocnemius (Gastroc) outline in red. We all know about and love to look at the Gastroc, its the show stopper muscle. That muscle that everyone sees on athletes and bodybuilders. However the Soleus is not well known. Probably due to the fact it has no physical appeal.

Ironically the Soleus is the work-horse of the calf complex compared to the Gastroc, but that’s a whole other subject.

So, whenever someone wants to ‘build’ their ‘calf’, they are usually referring to the Gastroc. So they do what everyone else does, calf raises of course.

Well unfortunately the action of the muscle is dependent upon the position of the knee. Calf raises can be seated or the better and more effective exercise would be standing calf raises.

Irregardless of how you ‘stand’ when doing this exercise the main point being that your knees need to be in the extended position and not flexed at the knee. They do not have to be locked in extension, but must be extended instead of flexed.

Why you ask?

Back to anatomy basics of the calf complex. The seated (flexed knee) as opposed to the standing (extended knee)calf raise, recruit and isolate the two different muscles in your calf. This is due to the origin and insertion sites of each muscle.

The Soleus originates below the knee joint, on the fibula and tibia as shown above on the right hand side. The Gastroc originates above the knee complex, on the ends of the femur (your thigh bone) as shown on the left hand side. These two pieces of information are CRITICAL in determining which muscle is trained during a seated calf raise and a standing calf raise.

During the standing calf raise your are using both your Gastroc and Soleus. In most cases the majority of the movement is from your Gastroc muscle complex. Now sit down. When you sit down and do the seated calf raise, you are actually removing the Gastroc muscle from the movement. You are now isolating your Soleus muscle complex. It may look like your Gastroc is being worked, and yes your ‘calf’ will feel the burn, but the only muscle being worked will be your Soleus. The Gastroc is simply an assistor muscle now, and helps stabilize your ankle complex and support the Soleus during plantar flexion of your ankle (which is the raising of your heels off the floor).

Still don’t believe me?

Try this on for size. Stretch out your calf muscle, by doing a static wall stretch. The run of the mill stretch, lean on the wall place one foot forward and the knee bent and place one foot back with the knee straight. Keeping your back heel on the floor bend with your front knee to stretch out the back calf. The farther forward you lean, or the farther back you put that rear foot the more you feel the stretch in your calf on that back leg.

Well now while your in that position, bend the posterior knee, ever so slightly. You only have to bend it maybe15 degrees, just enough to take your back knee out of extension. Did you notice the difference in the feeling of the stretch? You went from feeling the stretch in the meat of your calf muscle (your Gastroc), to feeling the stretch farther down your calf towards your heel (your Soleus).

That feeling changed because you bent your knee and removed the ‘meat’ of your calf’ (your Gastroc) out of the equation.Anyone who is an avid or competitive runner knows this first hand and has felt the difference.

The same principle applies when exercising those individual muscles.

So back to my original statement. A great exercise for the bodybuilder, a useless exercise for the lay-person.

You get the benefit of exercising this muscle during the standing calf raise, in fact your working both muscles, the Gastroc as well as the Soleus. Why would anyone other than a bodybuilder need to isolate their Soleus muscle?

I’m willing to bet, the majority of individuals who do this exercise are performing it simply because someone told them it ‘works your calf muscles’, or they suffer from the copy-cat syndrome I spoke of early in this post.

The next time you’re wanting to ‘work’ your calf muscles, be sure to find an exercise that leaves your knees straight, and not bent. You’ll be glad you did.

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DANGER Will Robinson DANGER!

Posted by Sean on June 4, 2008

 

I read this a long time ago. It was a dear Abby letter from a wife getting a divorce.

I’m posting this as some food for thought for those that I know and do not know that may be having a tough time deciding if where they are is where they should be.

  • If your parents or siblings have doubts about him, pay attention. Listen and check it out.
  • If your intended has nothing good to say about his ex, beware. This is a pattern. Divorce is rarely only one person’s fault.
  • If his children have nothing to do with him, do not believe him if he says his ex brainwashed them against him. Ask the children.
  • Look closely at his credit and job history. They are sure predictors of what your life will be like.
  • If he’s over 30 and has no money, do not let him move in with you, and don’t marry him until he’s financially solvent. If he has any respect for you (and himself), he’ll insist on it.
  • Be sure in your heart that you can live with him AS IS. You cannot change who another person is without destroying who they were.
  • This is a biggie. Be aware if he has no friends. It is not true that they all chose to side with his ex.
  • If your friends dislike him, pay attention. This is also true if he hates your friends.
  • If he has more than one DUI and still drinks, RUN!
  • If he is one personality at work or with others, and another person alone with you, RUN.
  • If he has nothing to do with his parents, investigate why. Do not take his word for it.
  • If he’s an expert at everything and brags a lot, understand that he will turn off a lot of people, eventually maybe even you.
  • If he has sexual problems, go with him to a doctor before you marry him. Believe me, his problem will become your problem.
  • If he is emotionally or verbally abusive, it will only get worse. Yelling, name-calling and glowering are classic signs of an abuser.
  • If he is never wrong and never apologizes, everything will be “your fault” forever. And after years of hearing it, you may even start to accept the blame.
  • If he does something wrong and says, “That wouldn’t have happened if you hadn’t ( ),” that’s another sign of an abuser.
  • And if he’s mean to children, pets or animals, recognize that he’s pathological, and the next victim could be you.

 

I would like to bring up some facts about these helpful hints.

This applies to BOTH genders, not just the man.

This was originally posted in September of 2004, and still holds true today.

If your mate exhibits even just ONE of these behaviors, please do not take it lightly. I speak from experience, they only need to have ONE of these behaviors to turn your world upside down.

Lastly a simple quote:  Broken heart

‘Take the time to do it right and you won’t have to find the time to do it over.’


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