Archive for November, 2008

Thanking

Yeah, yeah, I know. Thanksgiving has come and gone. And yes I know that others have already done the ‘Thank You’ blog post.

I unfortunately just now got around to starting finishing my Thank You thought.

I am appreciative and Thankful for:

Still being here ~ somehow someone wants me around

My health ~ I’m not injured or hurt (ever not have full function of your arm?)

My happiness

My beautiful wife said YES (when I asked her to marry me)

My wife’s health, heart and patience (I truly believe I have THE BEST wife)

My family and their health

My friends and their health

My education and training (as a nurse and an athletic trainer)

My career and my job (in this economy having a job IS a blessing)

My fellow colleagues and co-workers (past & present)

For the many wonderful people I have met through the Blogosphere (all my medi-tweeps and their respective blogs)

For my blog and all those who have been a part of it (yep I actually like blogging)

For Beth from PixelRN for having the vision and patience to ignite the many, many connections I have made through Twitter

There are a plethora of ‘things’ that I am leaving off this list. I think I could fill up pages and pages with lists of things I am thankful for, but I follow the K.I.S.S. principle, and this list sums up what I am most thankful for and most appreciative to have encountered.

Life is all about the little things in life. The smallest of things can be so larger than life most times. Be sure to enjoy what matters and let go of anything that does not compliment your life.

Take care of yourself and yours.

My Love.

Carpe Diem

The Nursing Career Opportunity

We had a high school student visit our department the other day. She spent a couple hours with us and other areas of interest as part of her ‘job-shadowing’ project.

I never did this as a high school senior, but it seemed like a great way to get a better ‘idea’ of what direction you’d like to take post-high school.

She got to choose what career’s interested her and then visited those areas. She visited different areas of ‘nursing’ on this particular day. She stopped by the medical-surgical unit, the OR and then with us in the PACU.

I guess this project was to help assist the student in their career choices they may or may not make. A down and dirty version of hearing it from the horses mouth.

It was more of a Q & A type visitation. The student asked questions and we provided the best answers we thought would help them. The only problem I saw was the lack of ’structure’. The student came up with questions that they thought would help them make a better informed or ’sound’ career decision. Unfortunately, most high school seniors don’t have what I would call ‘a firm grip’ on what ANY workplace environment is truly like. Not that that is a bad thing or a good thing. Just reality.

I mean most students who have worked, worked a part-time job as in the fast-food arena, department store retail, or maybe some office work. In all these scenarios I can’t say they get a good ‘taste’ of what ‘career work’ can and could be.

Most of us these days work for a living, and some of us actually get lucky enough to find the career that we both love and provides for us. A career instead of a ‘job’ -perse’.

So she asked the typical questions:

“What do you love about your job (nursing)?”

“What do you hate about your job?”

“What do you get paid?”

Ya’ know the good, the bad and the ugly questions.

Then the student asked my favorite question, “Why go into nursing?” “Why become a nurse?”

Here was my answer:

Nursing is hands down the single best career choice anyone can make. Aside from the oh-so obvious national nursing shortage that is impacting everyone. And aside from the almost guaranteed-job status for the next decade.(Now remember, I said a guaranteed job, not guaranteeing you’ll get the job you prefer or desire)

Nursing is the only career with unlimited opportunity at almost no cost.

It’s a career where after you attain your license as a Registered Nurse(RN), the sky is the limit. The only thing that will stop you from being happy as a nurse is your will to try and your flexibility to change.

As an RN you can change jobs, change environments, change responsibilities, basically change your ‘career’ in a sense without having to go back for additional formal schooling.(that you will have to pay for)

Granted, you may have to endure additional on the job training, and even acquire and maintain an additional certification, but you will not have to attain another degree and/or diploma.

This is the key. Most individual fell land-locked once they choose a path. The find out how much they may not like their current job/career, but never change due to the massive amount of time, energy and MONEY it would take to change their job or change their career.

As an RN:

You can work in a physicians’ office - change you mind - and work in the hospital as a staff nurse

You can work as a med-surg nurse - change your mind- and work in the critical care area

Interested in dialysis? All you need to do is apply.

How about surgery? Apply

The list is endless.

Now I am down-sizing the supply and demand shift here just a little. In order to move into another are of nursing, especially a specialty area (critical care, emergency, surgery) you will need to have a certain amount of experience. Some areas of nursing have definitive requirement due to the nature of the work you would be doing.

As an RN you also have room to grow and room to further your education and training. And this means more than just attaining your Bachelor’s, Master’s, or Doctorate in the nursing field.

With additional education you can strive to be a Nurse Practitioner (NP), or a Certified Registered Nurse Anesthetist(CRNA). Ever heard of a Flight Nurse?

The most awesome part of nursing is this: you get out of it, what you put into it.

Name me another career that affords this amount of opportunity with such minimal personal effort and sacrifice.

Carpe Diem

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Paying the Price

He was 34 years old.

He was a temporary worker.

All he was doing was opening the door.

This story still sickens me. And for some reason I can’t let it go. I think it’s because I have prior personal experience involving Wal-Mart at opening time on Black Friday.

A long, long time ago yours truly was an Assistant Manager for Wal-Mart. During my first year as a manager I was chosen to be the ‘door opener’ for that year.

Walking towards the entrance, I can’t say I thought much of the snickering from the other managers and employees.”How bad can it be?”, I thought to myself.

As I approached the foyer doors I could hear a funny clanging noise. I look out the entrance doors and you can barely see outside due to the ogling shoppers fogging up the windows. I make my way through the first set of double doors to find the source of the clanging. The eager shopper mob was so adamant to get into the store, that they were bowing the double-bolted, double-locked doors with their body weight. I still can’t believe the doors didn’t bust off the hinges that day.

I go to unlock the bolt with my set of keys and I can’t turn the bolt. I almost snap my key in half with my attempt before I realize I can’t move the bolt until the mob backs up and relieves the massive amount of pressure on the door. “Please step back from the door.”

An echoing of under-the-breath mumbling is heard. “I’ve been here since… I’m not letting someone get in there before me..”

“If you don’t take a step back, the doors will not open”

More grunting and growling.

Somehow I get my key to open the first set of locks, and I have to use my own body weight to pry open the second set of locks.

“SNAP”

The doors fly open like the vacuum sealed hatch of an aircraft. The mob pours into the foyer and I realize my keys are still in the door lock.

I have to take a ‘blocker’s stance’ to trudge through the river of shoppers and grab my set of keys. As I get my keys in hand the mob overtakes me and slams me up against the entrance rail.

I am pinned to this rail for at least 20 minutes. No where to move. No where to go. Every time I make an attempt to escape from the shopper stampede, I’m forcefully nudged back to my position.


That was my first experience at Black Friday. The day only got worse. I saw the worst in people. The public had an ugliness about them that is hard to describe.

Shoppers flowed in and out of the store like vultures on their pray. The degree to which individuals went to claim a sale item was preposterous.

I can vividly remember an elderly woman running over both my feet because I was in the way of the toy item she wanted. This woman had a cane and from the looks of it had a very difficult time ambulating without it!

My experience left a bad taste in my mouth in regards to Black Friday.

Unbeknownst to John Q. Public, this is not the first incidence of violence on Black Friday. No one has ever died, but many employees and fellow shoppers have become victims of physical harm. Just Google the terms: Black Friday, Violence and see for yourselves.

I do my best to stay as far away from the retail world the day after Thanksgiving.

I just wish that poor gentlemen could have done the same.

Carpe Diem

Don’t Criticize Others When You Are Angry With Yourself

Displaced aggression is a horrible weapon. For most of us it’s a trait we sometimes don’t realize we possess.

It rears it’s ugly head in some of the worst places, at some of the most inopportune times. This particular animal doesn’t have a preference for where it festers.

It can happen at work, at home, in the grocery store, while filling up your tank at the gas station.

No matter where it surfaces, it’s volcanic presence leaves a tattooed scar on those who fall victim to it’s performance.

Ever make a snap judgment at a co-worker because you forgot something at home?

Ever raise your voice at your spouse because of something you were involved in at work?

Ever lose your patience with a store employee because you were just informed of some personal bad news?

What about being in a foul mood with everyone around you because of something that happened to you yesterday, or the day before?

It’s all the same.

We transfer the emotion from ourselves to another.

Emotion is a strange thing. It’s powerful. Powerful enough to set things in motion that we would consciously not agree with.

The great thing about emotion and your participation in it’s action:

It’s a choice you get to make.

Carpe Diem