The problem with commuting…

Driving

Nothing was more aggravating than that ONE driver who thought they were ‘smarter’ than the rest. Better yet, how about having a handful of drivers who thought they were smarter than the flow of traffic. The last time I checked everyone who was commuting was trying to get to their destination just as fast as the next person.

*sigh*

I was a commuter for years. I commuted a long distance for a former job, then I commuted again for school. Traffic patterns and flow was so temperamental, just when you think you had it figured out…. you’re sitting in your car (AGAIN) for hours on end.

I can remember when I first starting commuting. I thought to myself, “this will be a great way to decompress after a stressful day”

[face palm]

What made things really fun was during inclement weather.

Gewd times… ahh the memories.

;)

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That first question on an exam….

 

Was it just me, or did that first question on an exam make or  break you? I mean seriously. When the first question on the exam tripped me up, confused me or completely perplexed me… my confidence for the remainder of the exam went down the tubes.

All I could think was, “Good gawd… please don’t let me fail, please don’t let me fail”.

I would wonder, did I even study this stuff??!!!

Am I alone on this one??

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Who needs an alarm clock…??

Yawn!!

More than once this week I’ve woken up before my alarm clock. I’m talking 10-20 minutes earlier than the alarm setting.

*sigh*

Not 5 minutes.

Not 30 minutes.

That gawd-awful time frame that is too short to lay back down and fall back asleep, and it’s too long of time frame because you could very well just fall back to sleep to be jarred awake by the actual alarm clock.

I’m not sure what’s worse? Taking the chance, laying back down and being jarred awake… or just getting up and losing out on that 10-20 minutes of needed sleep. I’ve made both choices.. and they both sort of stink… LOL

Does anyone else regret fighting ‘nap time’ as a kid?

 

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Focus on the people that get it

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“It doesn’t matter how many people don’t get it, focus on the people that do”

Thank you Mr. Ferriss, for the advice on dealing with the haters.

Ferriss’ 7 Principles:

  1. It doesn’t matter how many people don’t get it, focus on the people that do
  2. 10% of people will find a way to hate you – don’t take it personally
  3. When you try to please everyone, you end up alienating the more valuable people
  4. If 95% of the people like you, you’re not doing it right
  5. You want to practice being foolish and stupid
  6. Living well is the best revenge
  7. Keep calm and carry on

It’s been an interesting couple weeks for me. I’m doing the work thang. I’m doing the coaching thang… and now the YouTube endeavor with scrubsBeat is slowly gaining some momentum in the popularity department.

- Sidebar: the popularity is due mostly in part to the amazing people over at Scrubs Magazine coupled with the raving popularity of Katie Duke. I can’t say I garnish a lot of ‘followers’ or readers.

With this new found public interest (traffic) comes the good …… aaaand the bad. The ‘haters’ are cropping up. I guess I’ve been lucky over the years being the ‘invisible’ (behind the scenes) blogger. I dodged the hater bullet. Or maybe I just never payed much attention? Either way. I’m noticing it now. There are some seriously mean people out there, let me tell ya. Isn’t the catch-phrase internet trolls?

I have a new-found respect for Katie Duke and others who are in the public eye. I don’t think anyone looks good under a microscope. And when your every move is judged and critiqued.. I can completely understand how one can get negative. Yet Katie and others continue to plug away, navigating through the crap maintaining their composure with great poise, sharing all things positive.

I started to let the ‘meanness’ get to me…

Then I realized, I don’t blog, tweet, post updates or record video with the intent of pleasing the masses. I do all of it as a way of sharing my story. Sharing my experiences. And while I’m at it, maybe even impart some knowledge (droppin’ knowledge bombs peeps). I started this whole blogging thing years ago (hard to believe I’ve been blogging for over 8 years!) because I wanted to ‘get things off my chest’.. and I wanted to find out if all these crazy things that I had been experiencing were unique to my corner of the world, or that perhaps I wasn’t alone. Along the way I’ve gained a tad bit of experience, and have met some pretty awesome people.

Over the years I learned that I’m not alone. That my crazy life is not all that unique. That as a nurse practitioner, my journey has been shared by many others before and after me. That my  crazy journey with my weight, my exercising, my eating was more common than I imagined. That my discovery and ‘passion’ for CrossFit (and its overall message) was part of something bigger than I ever imagined.

So, I ramble on today just to validate that while there are a crap-ton of haters and negative Nate’s & Nelly’s, there are an infinitely larger number of positive change agents out there. People who are doing what I do. Trying what I am trying. Putting themselves out there. Sharing their stories.

Those are the ones that matter.

An old friend of mine has been trading positivity with me lately on Facebook. We both came across a great saying:

“Iron sharpens Iron”

While the quote has a strong ‘exercise/fitness’ undertone to it, it can and does apply to everything in my life (and yours too). Be the light, (and)or be the mirror. Whatever you do, don’t let the darkness swallow you up. Some people just don’t get ‘it’. Focus on the ones that do.

Stay strong gang.

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My time off of work… it always goes by so fast? #nurselife

7 days on, and 8 days off. I have one more day off. During the past 7 days I packed a busy week. I got to spend time doing what I love, coaching. Along with putting my hand on the barbell 4 out of the past 7 days training. So I couldn’t be happier. Top it all off with a weekend spent with my awesome family doing some belated birthday celebrations, and you can call that a pretty kick-##S week.

Here’s my week in pictures:

The sun was shining all week, which made for some awesome training weather during the early morn. I got to coach the 6am class early on in the week, so I’d stick around and train while enjoying the sunrise. Perfection.

This was my favorite one..

Along the way I discovered I think I broke some sort of ‘branding’ law by wearing all three major brands in one sitting…

My week off wouldn’t be complete without a few trips to the store. I decided to share one of my many hidden talents..

For some strange reason I ended catching a nagging head cold / allergy exacerbation (check this previous post: I don’t get sick … often? ). I still sucked it up and made the road trip home to visit my family for some belated birthday celebrations. So of course I have to practice what I preach:

Despite how crappy I was feeling, I wasn’t gonna let it ruin family-time.. insert McDonald’s-smile:

We spent a great weekend laughing and catching up with our family. I’m glad we did. I missed them. The more I’m away from them the more I realize how important they are to me, and the time I spend with them is a priority.

In the end, my weekend was partially (if not completely) fueled by:

Uhh…. Heeelloooh? I’m a nurse. Coffee. It’s what we do.

How was everyone’s weekend? I’m back to the grind on Tuesday for a short stint before another nice long weekend. A belated Wedding Anniversary get-away / celebration with my beautiful wife. :)

 

 

I don’t get sick….. often? Thank you D.A.B.D.A. #nurselife

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Two days ago I started to get a crazy runny nose out of one nostril. I immediately thought, “uh-oh”. I had hoped it was just the change in weather and my allergies kicking up a bit, but the runny nose lasted throughout the night and into the next day.

<uh-oh>

Oscillococcinum

So I did what every other person does. I started my long journey through the phases of grief (Thank you Kubler-Ross)

  • DENIAL- I am NOT sick
  • ANGER – why the hell am I getting sick at THIS time of the year? Seriously?
  • BARGAINING – OK, OK, I’m sorry. Let’s take some OTC herbal ‘cold fighting’ remedies. I’ll be happy with just a little head cold – PLEASE don’t let this be the flu!!!
  • DEPRESSION- being sick sucks. Gravity-dependent breathing is not fun.
  • ACCEPTANCE- alright. Fine. I’m sick. I guess I’ll take some crappy medicine to get through my day.

Catching a cold sucks.Needless to say, my night of sleep was..uhh… just dandy. I dragged my achy, block-headed self out of bed…

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Straight to the medicine cabinet of course. Taking whatever decongestant/antihistamine/ anti-pyretic I could find.

We’re taking a road trip this weekend, and I need to be ‘awake and alert’. So me and those OTC meds will become BFF’s. Funny how I get a head cold now? At this time if the year?

Now that I think about it. My wife is a school nurse.. and she’s been mentioning a lot of ‘cold’s lately. Hmmphm. Maybe my immune system is not as strong as I thought? As a side note I take a healthy dose of Vitamin C every day.

Guess it was just the luck of the draw. Lots of rest and fluids, well fluids at least. LOL

 

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Water guns and… saline syringes… #nurselife

What do water guns and (pre-filled) saline syringes have in common?

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That ceiling tile never had a chance.

Needless to say I break the seal on the syringes by pulling on the plunger first!! You’re welcome for that hot-tip.

;)

Sidebar: I think I’m starting to get comfortable sitting in front of the camera. …   ….    Weird.

 

 

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