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The real reason we nurses get bitter

Posted by Sean on September 17, 2011

Shrtstormtrooper shares a story over at New Nurse Insanity (link below) that encapsulates why we nurses develop short fuses. Fuses that lead to burnout, angst, anger and all kinds of negativity. Sometimes (some) nurses really need to check themselves before ‘reporting’ a fellow ‘fighter’ to their supervisor. Walk just a few steps in another co-workers shoes.. you might think twice about reporting someone for something you yourself probably forget or miss just as much, if not more than most nurses!

A high five to Shrtstormtrooper.

Priorities, seriously

So I got called into the Boss Man’s office this morning, because the floor wrote me up and he wanted to address the issue.
At this point, my feet hurt, I haven’t peed yet tonight, I didn’t get to eat anything, I have blood on my scrub pants…..

I have poop on my scrub pants…

I haven’t finished charting on that last arterial bleeder that came in….

and my coffee from 7pm is still sitting full on the counter next to my computer. It’s been a rough night.

 

I got written up because, in all the madness, I missed a skin tear on this patient. One skin tear, out of many. And actually, it wasn’t my patient to begin with,

New Nurse Insanity: The Adolescent Years | Priorities, seriously

Follow the link above to read the whole story. Be sure to leave a comment for her, let her know she’s not alone!

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A Marine is awarded the Medal of Honor

Posted by Sean on September 15, 2011

As a former Marine I often wonder how many of us realize how very few Medal of Honor awards have been bestowed upon a Marine? I like to think it’s because all Marine’s carry a high level of duty to others, and while Sgt. Meyer’s actions are honorable are far from unique to those band of brothers.

Thank you Sergeant, and a humble congratulations. I am sure your fellow brothers are equally thankful and proud.

Medal of Honor recipient highlights Marine’s valor as well as risks US troops faced under controversial rules of engagement

On Thursday, President Obama will award the Medal of Honor to Marine Sgt. Dakota Meyer.

Meyer will become the third living recipient–and first Marine–to be awarded the Medal of Honor for actions in Iraq or Afghanistan, the White House said. He is also the first living former Marine to receive the highest U.S. military honor since the Vietnam war, a Marine Corps press officer told The Envoy Wednesday.

The heroic conduct Meyer displayed in retrieving the bodies of four fellow Marines killed in battle occurred during a September 2009 battle in Kunar Province, Afghanistan. The rules of engagement for the conflict have caused controversy and some bitterness.

 

Meyer was serving as a member of a Marine Corps training team embedded with Afghan National Army forces in Gangjal, Afghanistan on September 8, 2009.

"A full moon was drenching the mountains in ghostly light as some 60 Afghan soldiers, 20 border police officers, 13 Marine and U.S. Army trainers and I set out for Ganjgal at 3 a.m. from the U.S. base in the Shakani District," McClatchy national security reporter Jonathan Landay, who was embedded with the unit at the time, reported in September 2009.

As the team came under insurgent fire and rocket attack, however, U.S. commanders repeatedly denied the request to provide air cover, under new rules of engagement designed to reduce civilian casualties.

"U.S. commanders, citing new rules to avoid civilian casualties, rejected repeated calls to unleash artillery rounds at attackers dug into the slopes and tree lines — despite being told repeatedly that they weren’t near the village," Landay reported. "We waited more than an hour for U.S. helicopters to arrive, despite earlier assurances that air cover would be five minutes away."

By the time helicopters arrived, four U.S. Marines had been killed, as well as eight Afghan troops and the US Marine commander’s Afghan interpreter.

"The Marines were cut down as they sought cover in a trench at the base of the village’s first layer cake-style stone house," Landay reported. "One Marine was bending over a second, tending his wounds, when both were killed, said Marine Cpl. Dakota Meyer, 21, of Greensburg, Ky., who retrieved their bodies."

Meyer, born in 1986, retired from the Marines in June 2010, and now lives in Kentucky.

The last living former Marine to receive the Medal of Honor was in 1973: "Now-retired [Marine] Sgt. Maj. Allan Kellogg . . . received the Medal from President Nixon at the White House on Oct 15, 1973," Military Times’ Dan Lamothe reported.

Medal of Honor recipient highlights Marine’s valor as well as risks US troops faced under controversial rules of engagement | The Envoy – Yahoo! News#

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Begin CPR…

Posted by Sean on September 8, 2011

Then you see this:

Serious Ink of the Day

Serious Ink of the Day: 81-year-old Joy Tomkins of Downham Market, Norfolk, wanted to make sure no one tried to bring her back from the dead, so she did what any normal grandmother of six would do: She had “Do Not Resuscitate” tattooed on her chest.

“I do not want to be half dead, I want to be fully dead,” said Tomkins, who suffers from arthritis, Reynard’s disease, and diabetes. “I’m afraid the medical profession will, with the best of intentions, keep me alive when I don’t want to be alive.”

Despite her wishes, a General Medical Council spokesman said Tomkins’ ink will likely be ignored. “Mrs Tomkins’ tattoo would not be enough information by itself for a doctor to make this decision on in an emergency.”

The tattoo, of course, is just a backup: Tomkins has a living will that says the exact same thing.

Serious Ink of the Day |The Daily What

Of course this is all speculation, but what if you went to start CPR. You exposed the sternum to find that tattoo. What exactly would you do? Yeah, I know. It’s not a binding legal document. But, how would you feel if you were proceeding with life-saving measures to discover that when this patient was of ‘sound mind’ she did not want to be resuscitated?

Of course I’m over-simplifying things!

But it sure does make you pause doesn’t it?

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Night Shi(f)t Blues

Posted by Sean on August 2, 2011

“ society does little to accommodate the shift worker” – I couldn’t agree more. Consider that when we normal folk are doing are ‘thing’ the shift worker is trying to get their rest and sleep. Why don’t you try ‘living’ when the world is sleeping.

I have the utmost respect for anyone working while all normal human beings are sleeping. It takes a very strong and resilient person.

The worst shift I ever worked was a 3-7:30 shift loading freight onto planes in Portland. Wet, windy, cold on the damp days, hot and windy when it was warm, and I had to walk uphill both ways to work. But at least there was time to deal with normal life that working night shift doesn’t give me.

My manager remarked to me that night-shifters tend to, “have a bit of chip on our shoulders, almost like the world owes you something.” Damn right I do. I’m up when most sane and rational people are asleep. I sleep when the rest of the world is doing there thing. If someone is loud, obnoxious when day shift sleeps, they can call the cops. Me? I’m outta luck.

So yes, I have a chip about it. The world wants 24-7 care, a 24-7 society, but does little to accommodate it. One of these needs has to give. Soon.

Night Shift Blues | Lost on the Floor

Here is J Doe’s take on the Wanderer’s rant

Shi(f)t Work

I don’t do much shift any more, but I just came off three 12 hour nights, and I am whacked, even with the strictly-not-sanctioned-nor-endorsed-by-management two-hour naps breaks taken in the so-called dead hours between 0200 and 0600. So I get it. One of my colleagues, whom the nursing gods have blessed with a D/E line and who probably has not worked past 2300 in ten years, constantly gripes about the night shift nap “perk.” She believes strongly — and will tell anyone in earshot — that the night crew, instead of taking their naps, ought to be doing all the scut work which never seems to be completed on days. Because they’re all lazy and worthless louts, et cetera.

Uh, no. And yeah, the world does owe shift workers something, even it’s the two-hour naps which in any case often can’t be taken because of patient acuity. There’s pretty good evidence that links shift work cardiovascular disease (among other afflictions), not to mention the obvious safety hazard of driving home bleary-eyed. Two hour naps, when you think about it, are pretty poor compensation for decreased life expectancy. And then there’s the usual disruptions to family and social life, sleeping patterns and the general feeling of malaise shift work brings. Obviously shift workers are cranky, and for good reason

So before complaining about the inadequacy/relative worth/attitude of the night shift, shut up. No, really. Shut up.

Shift work | Those Emergency Blues

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RULES FOR BEING HUMAN

Posted by Sean on July 8, 2011

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Found this some time ago on the web

1. You will receive a body. You may like it or hate it, but it will be yours for the entire period this time around.

2. You will learn lessons. You are enrolled in a full-time informal school called life. Each day in this school you will have the opportunity to learn lessons. You may like the lessons or think them irrelevant and stupid.

3. There are no mistakes, only lessons. Growth is a process of trial and error, and experimentation. The ‘failed’ experiments are as much a part of the process as the experiments that ultimately ‘work’.

4. A lesson is repeated until learned. A lesson will be presented to you in various forms until you have learned it. When you have learned it, you can then go on to the next lesson.

5. Learning lessons does not end. There is no part of life that does not contain its lessons. If you are alive, there are lessons to be learned.

6. ‘There’ is not better than ‘here’. When your ‘there’ has become a ‘here’, you will simply obtain another ‘there’ that will, again, look better than ‘here’.

7. Others are merely mirrors of you. You cannot love or hate something about another person unless it reflects to you something you love or hate about yourself.

8. What you make of life is up to you. You have all the tools and resources you need. What you do with them is up to you. The choice is yours.

9. The answer lies inside you. The answer to life’s questions lie inside you. All you need to do is look, listen and trust.

10. You will forget all this.

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Nurses are the true gentle Lions

Posted by Sean on June 23, 2011

I can’t say I’ve been a follower or a fan of J&J and there plight on “Campaign for Nursing’s Future”, but these two videos just grabbed my attention. I had to share the amazing contrast to the two videos that have successfully and subliminally chopped down two amazing stereotypes.

Stereotype #1: Men can’t be nurses, they don’t have compassion

Check this video out:

pediatric male nurse

This tugs at your heart strings. It’s my understanding the nurse is not just an actor, but is a practicing nurse (not sure how true). Any questions on men’s capacity for compassion?

Stereotype #2: The ER is for male nurses only

And the video:

ER female nurse

 

This not only tugs at your heart strings, but shows you that ANY nurse in the ER kicks @ss and takes name, regardless of their gender.

The nurse. The gentle lion that is big and strong, soft at their core, and saturated full of the human experience

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The hardcore nurse revolt!

Posted by Sean on June 19, 2011

This is a blog post by Ian over at ImpactedNurse. He’s addressing the ‘under the breath’ topic of bullying in our profession. Kudos to Ian. It’s time to ‘fight’ back.

 

A hardcore nurse is not hard like a wall, they are hard like a birth.
A hardcore nurse gives all their attention and energy to the task and challenge before them.
Through careful reflection, introspection, and interaction, the hardcore nurse has penetrated the power and importance their work. They know the very real difference they can make to both their colleagues, and those they care for.
They do not squander this response-ability.
They do not come to work just to socialise, or to provide the bare minimum standard of care, or to whine and bitch about their lot.
They are not just a nurse, and it is not just a job.
No, a hardcore nurse wields  fierce compassion, uncompromising professionalism and aggressive sensitivity.  They wade assuredly into the midst of it, embracing the  joys and embracing the sorrows.
They strive to bring out the best in themselves and those they work with.
They are not to be fucked with.

….. continue on to read the rest

hardcore nursing revolution | Impacted Nurse

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My Father my Hero

Posted by Sean on June 19, 2011

Happy Father’s Day Dad

 

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Happy Father’s Day Dad. This was an old post as well as a copy of an email I sent my father for Father’s Day a couple years ago now. I feel inclined to share it every year, since it speaks volumes about how lucky I was and am to have this man as my Father.

THINGS MY FATHER TAUGHT ME:

  • How to pull his finger
  • How to appreciate everything I have or own
  • How to look something up in a dictionary
  • How to box
  • How to hit a baseball.. By practicing with a ping-pong ball.
  • How to fish
  • How to hunt…. And how not to scratch my cornea on a tree twig
  • How not to slide down the windshield of a car!
  • How to do backwards math
  • How to stick up for myself
  • How to have self-reliance
  • To be accountable for my actions
  • How NOT to play with a Rubik’s race.
  • How to moon your family on Christmas morning
  • To reap what I sow
  • How drinking alcohol is not all it’s cracked up to be… especially the morning after.
  • How to be independent
  • How to trust and be trust worthy
  • Learn the difference between what is good and what is right.
  • How to be humble.
  • How to never take anything or anyone for granted
  • What it means to be a friend
  • How to treat others
  • How to be yourself, not someone else
  • The difference between arrogance and courage.
  • How to never give up, and never quit
  • How to kill a raccoon in your attic with a compound bow.
  • How to feel safe.
  • How to change the oil in my car
  • How to install a car radio
  • How to properly install a new light switch
  • How to understand and appreciate your family lineage
  • How to appreciate where you came from

My father taught me that we all get one chance to make our mark on this world, and if there is anything worth doing, it’s worth doing right.

I am the man I am today because my father cared enough to teach me how to BE a man.

He taught me how to become a man and he still teaches me every time I see him or talk to him on how to be a better man.

Everything that is good in me, is a direct result from the man who calls himself my father.

Chance favors the prepared mind, and my father never wanted me to be ill prepared.

Thanks dad for being you.

I am proud to say you are my father, and I brag about being your son.

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The makings of a good nurse

Posted by Sean on June 18, 2011

Another post from Scrubs Magazine, this one about the makings of a ‘good’ nurse.

What makes a good nurse?

Recently there was a very interesting conversation on Twitter during the weekly RNChat : Twitter Chat June 2, 2011 9pm EST

I won’t go into the details about the specifics of RNChat, I think I’ve covered them before. I highly suggest attending one if you’re interested in learning more the nursing profession and the challenges we face, or would like to chat with Nurses on Twitter who have a passion for their profession.

So this question was posed: Nursing Education: What legacies in Nursing Ed need to be ditched and what ought to replace them?

The conversation bounced around many themes for this topic. Everything from standardization of education requirements, standardization of CEU requirements across the nation, incorporation of the internet, informatics and many others.

As this topic progressed the pulse of the conversation seemed to change gears a bit. All of sudden it was about the age old question in nursing BSN vs. ADN.

This debate sparked other opinionated question like:

  • Is one better than the other and why?
  • Should BSN be the basic requirement for an entry-level RN?
  • ADN nurses have better prepared than BSN?
  • ADN nurses get more experience at the bedside during their schooling, so they are better prepared for the bedside as new grads?
  • BSN nurses have better critical thinking skills?
  • Should employers require nurses to get their BSN?
  • Who’s going to pay for it?
  • Are ADN nurse being shuffled through their schooling too fast just to meet the needs of the nursing shortage?

The conversation sort of hopped all around for quite a bit. Through it all I noticed that individuals were actually taking sides. We were getting territorial – even in cyberspace about this topic!

It seems the ADN nurses were taking the defensive stance on being a good nurse even without the auspicious bachelor’s degree. While the BSN nurses were of course promoting the advancement.

I gave you that very long intro to ask a simple question. What makes a good nurse?

Is it their degree? Is it their school of nursing where they got their entry-level education? Do ADN nurses make better nurses due to increased clinical time during their entry-level education?

I don’t know about you, but initials after someone’s name never made them ‘GOOD’ at what they do. I have met some of the most educated and highly trained individuals who make the worst clinicians. While some of the best nurses still only have their diploma.

What really makes a good nurse?

Is it a fine combination of skills, education, time in grade, compassion, humility, caring attitude, and that can-do attitude?

I think the answer to this question is so complex and so fragmented that we probably will never know the real answer. And the fact that we cannot answer this question in simple terms makes our profession all the more suspect.

I know I’m running circles around this concept but let’s think about in terms of advancement of our profession. Is advancing our education the answer to increasing the quality of our care?

We could sit here and argue about Evidence Based Practice and accepted norms, but in the end we as nurse are required to constantly ask the question, ‘Why’. We do it every day in our practice, regardless of work setting. So we ought to ask the same question about what makes a good nurse, because in the end don’t we reap what we sow?

My apologies for skyrocketing off on a tangent about this topic, I just find it mind-boggling and fascinating that we still can’t come to an agreed collaborative answer.

What makes a good nurse? | Scrubs Magazine

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The Biggest Loser’s silver lining

Posted by Sean on June 5, 2011

I’ve admitted this more than once on here about having no love for ‘The Biggest Loser’. They do have a couple things right though…

The 5 secrets to the Biggest Loser

For some strange reason most of John Q Public is continually fascinated by the TV show ‘The Biggest Loser’. They seem to be in awe of the amazing and breathtaking results that the contestants accomplish.

“How do they do it?”

“What’s their secret?”

Some take the road of negativity and place blame on the show for sending such a mixed message (I’m guilty of this):

“If I had a personal trainer, I’d lose weight too!”

Now, let me be clear, I think the show itself is bad for your health. It gives some pretty mixed messages about how to lose weight, and what you should and should not do. But the show does have a silver lining that we can all benefit from. It gives you the tools and the key ingredients on how to successfully lose those extra pounds. Not only lose them, but keep them off!

Here is what the show possess that you need to incorporate into your lifestyle in order to see the changes you desire:

Motivation

The money! Who doesn’t want to win the cash? I don’t know about you, but I could use $250,000. Of course none of us can find THAT kind of motivation, but something that motivates you on a daily basis. Whether it’s a cash prize or not. Some people will place bets with fellow co-workers or family & friends. You decide on the what/when/where, but YOU decide. Because in the end it has to motivate YOU and no one else. You’re gonna need that motivation when it starts to get tough and you start getting tired.

Support

The contestants not only have the support of the trainers and that panel of ‘judges’ at the end of each show (sorry I don’t really watch the show), but they find support amongst fellow cast members, contestants and family. Find support with those that are fighting the same fight as you, or have been through what you are going through. The energy you channel from their validation is empowering.

Deadlines

I for one think that the weekly deadline is a bit extreme, but it’s reality TV, not real life. Create reasonable, realistic and reachable deadlines. Whether they are daily, weekly, bi-weekly, monthly, etc. You set the deadline. But you better be sure to stick to them and not change them to your liking, or change them because you missed the deadline. Create them and stick to them. Period. No excuses. Use the deadlines to help monitor your progress.

Guidance

There isn’t a soul out there that knew everything there is to know about losing weight when they started. They utilized their resources and learned from those that are more educated or ‘field ready’. On the show, it’s relatively easy to seek guidance since they have personal trainers they report to. I only caution you to seek guidance carefully, because there are people out there who will guide you in the wrong direction. Stay away from the absolutes. There is more than one way to skin a cat, don’t let anyone lead you in to believing their way is the only way.

Feedback

Ultimately this is bread and butter of the show. Every week the contestants get feedback on what went right, what went wrong. They are confronted about their weaknesses and congratulated on their strengths and accomplishments. The feedback is the pivoting lever that helps you maintain balance and keeps you moving forward towards your final goal. No feedback = no progress.

Use these tools with ANY lifestyle change or program of your choosing and you will succeed. It’s really that simple.

The 5 secrets to the Biggest Loser | Scrubs Magazine

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